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I'm fairly good at *making friends* with people. I'm also good at getting focused work done solo. I find it *very* hard to get cognitively intense work done *with* people without feeling flustered/pressured. Any advice on this?
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I’m bad at this too. What’s sorts worked for me is starting with very low expectations, leading with easy-win fun, then small trust-building warmups (date before marriage principle). In steady state, structure incentives right and keep things as asynchronous as possible.