A good reason to maintain a dislikable streak in your personality is that it’s hard to form clear-eyed judgments of people who like you without qualifications. You’ll be tempted to be blind to their faults. Make sure everyone who likes you does so with a caveat.
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Yeah there’s a hormesis angle here. Give them a small dose of your ugly side so they are able to handle the test of your ugly side without hating you.
