I know this was meant for Sonya but 

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Replying to @KevinSimler @rdrooney
What a sweet message, Robert. I appreciate it.
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly @sonyaellenmann and
Damn humblebraggarts
My dms have been open for a while and I only get like one whacko message every few weeks or so. Otherwise mostly mutuals message me anyway.
Demand for my attention is going down. It will happen to you too.
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I am shocked by this tbh. I would expect you to get 10x the random weird unappealing messages that I do
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly @sonyaellenmann and
I’m neither young nor female
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the weird or undesirable messages that I get don't seem to be related to my gender and youth, although it's impossible to disentangle
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly @sonyaellenmann and
another variable that makes a huge difference is "softness". people like to DM soft people. venkat's persona is literally the opposite of soft; he talks about sparring. ie people DM sonyas hoping to be stroked, people DM venkats hoping to be sparred
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Replying to @visakanv @sonyaellenmann and
so someone saying "do you have any recommendations for X" might seem to be asking a non-gendered question, but they might just want to have a pleasant exchange with a soft person, and they will pick sonyas over venkats almost every time – gender influences assessment of softness
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Replying to @visakanv @sonyaellenmann and
visa is working on his ebook Retweeted visa is working on his ebook
long-running joke/observation with me and my wife – I am actually the softer one, but 95-99% of the people we meet immediately assume she must be the soft one, because girlhttps://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1016262393779744768 …
visa is working on his ebook added,
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Replying to @visakanv @sonyaellenmann and
visa is working on his ebook Retweeted visa is working on his ebook
(ps: i mention "venkat's persona is the opposite of soft" bc we know deep down actually venkat is a secret softie. we see u venkat)https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1123369966894342144 …
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Sonya presents as far more “fite me!” than me I think. Sparring is offline. Online I’m definitely a non-violent softie. But I am not an emotionally nurturing type and I think it shows. That limits inbound. I can do encouragement/concrete help sometimes, but not caring/healing.
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Replying to @vgr @sonyaellenmann and
that is also true bah u complicated people
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