I decided to close my DMs recently and it made me sad, like I was letting down an idealistic version of myself. But also, I just can’t? 🙁
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I can't bring myself to ignore incoming messages that aren't obviously spam... (or abusive, but that hasn't happened to me). So it's more effective, in terms of my time and energy, to filter them out in the first place. But yeah... I feel bad about that =/
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I know this was meant for Sonya but 🤗🙏
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What a sweet message, Robert. I appreciate it.
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Damn humblebraggarts 🤬
My dms have been open for a while and I only get like one whacko message every few weeks or so. Otherwise mostly mutuals message me anyway.
Demand for my attention is going down. It will happen to you too. 💀
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I am shocked by this tbh. I would expect you to get 10x the random weird unappealing messages that I do
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I’m neither young nor female 🙂
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the weird or undesirable messages that I get don't seem to be related to my gender and youth, although it's impossible to disentangle
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