A defining quality of SF socializing: extremely analytical conversations about nothing in particular
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“Extremely analytical about nothing in particular” has always been my default.
Common theme I see in those who share this:
• Felt like social instinct didn’t come naturally as kid
• Depended on analytical lens
• Analysis bootstraped their intuition
• Shaped who they became
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Recurring SF friend theme:
😈 Deviation from basic norm: “Why not just split every meal?”
😡 Frustration: “This feels transactional!”
🤔 Deconstruction: “Oh! I’m signaling short-term relationship thinking!”
💡 Reconstruction: “I’ll pickup the check because of Social Capital ✨!”
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Replying to
This is why I don’t live there. Can’t handle the bistromathics
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You can’t pin that on me, they were needing put over check splitting long before I started blogging
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