If you can’t instinctively respond to an unconsciously felt sense of what another person values about themselves, they will either drop you or treat you like a robot. That’s what’s going on behind accusations of tone deafness, disrespect etc.
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I know people with an idealized self-image who violently reject any facts to the contrary. Accuse them of tone deafness all the time. Any suggestions to get them to see a different perspective? Feel free to dm
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But yeah, “make friends w them first” might still apply. I’ll just go consult my therapist ✌🏼

