Preliminary theory of self-liking. It isn’t the same as being likable to others. It consists of being interested in what happens to you, without being overly invested in, or striving for, *particular* things to happen to you, so long as unpleasant premature endings are avoided.
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So you have to like the inside feel of the behavior. And it need not be a skilled behavior or sensory hedonism. Daydreaming is a good example.
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Self-liking might also explain excellence resistance.
From the inside the feel of excelling at something can be way too intense to like. You have to slack off and take a breather. Or cut the experience with some good meh.Show this thread
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