There’s really only 4 ways to connect with someone of a culture/ideology you hate at an intellectual level (none guaranteed):
1. Develop a taste for their food
2. Develop a taste for their music/cultural output
3. Weather a mortal crisis with them
4. Sleep with them
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Be in a larger community with them and see their positive actions and their effects without engaging with them directly. // Do it on purpose - intentional seeing with goal of stretch loving // Be stuck with them somehow/somewhere and be forced to work together.
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This sounds like an interesting movie. Or 3rd date
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Food isn't going to cut it. You can culturally appropriate cuisine w/out liking the people. (National Front types and curry, Greece/Turkey and their food being v. similar.) Stronk agree re: culture though.
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Maybe this is implied in the above but the most definitive way it so bully them relentlessly and then later have one of them save your life. This is followed by the knowing glance and nod.










