hot take: women don't "not want to hear solutions" when they complain about problems, it's just that men uniformly suggest solutions we've already tried/disqualified (and do so as if they were geniuses for thinking it up)
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Many women appear to have mastered the art of asking compact questions that clearly encode current level of answer. Men otoh...
Man 1: 101 question
Man 2: 101 answer
Man 1: You patronizing me bro?

