Ruinous empathy leads academic to perversely misanalyze accurate observations of a mix of radical candor and obnoxious aggression
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yes. obnoxious aggression does work better than ruinous empathy. But it's not a choice you have to make. You can be radically candid :) I feel her pain tho. I was once woefully unprepared for a debate & tried on bloviating bullshit and sad how well it worked

