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yeah I think sometime last year. I didn't have to force myself, it's like a good reddit thread that draws you in. I wanted to understand women better so it was a no-brainer; in it they're being honest and open to a degree you seldom see in everyday life
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So is men being expected to show no vulnerability considered emotional labor? Or is it theorized on the entitlement side making this a primarily female cause? 🤔
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🤔🤔🤔 I think the *consequences* of male toughness require emotional labour (ie shitty dad -> mum cleans up the mess). I think the responsibility for the creation of the expectation of "show no vulnerability" is foisted on the patriarchy
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I did a quick browse and I’m more than a little skeptical of the underlying narrative. The phenomenology is real, but the theory feels 100% ideological. A case of theorizing EL to be primarily an anti-patriarchy weapon rather than an insightful explanation.