Douchebagginess seems to be driven by 2 unconscious factors. The 1st is believing your weaknesses are immutable and deciding to brazenly own them. The 2nd is being threatened by others trying to work on those weaknesses and attacking their fragile growth state imposter syndrome
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“If you fight for your limitations, you get to keep them” -
However, I think bad actors/assholes span a much broader spectrum than just those who feel weakness is immutable & try to drag down those trying to escape it
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Everyone probably has a slightly different definition, but I’d include e.g. those who are incapable of recognizing any fault whatsoever in themselves
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