Douchebagginess seems to be driven by 2 unconscious factors. The 1st is believing your weaknesses are immutable and deciding to brazenly own them. The 2nd is being threatened by others trying to work on those weaknesses and attacking their fragile growth state imposter syndrome
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I think people who don’t think it’s possible to “feel clean” at least for a while, and in some narrow sense, are like people who haven’t taken a bath for so long they’ve forgotten what it feels like to not be in an endemic state of grimy, smelly, itchiness.
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They seem to think it’s all about wanting to feel superior to others and hold others in contempt/look down on them. That’s like thinking the primary benefit of a bath is being able to turn your nose up at smelly people. Err, no. It’s actually a nice feeling all by itself.
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