An underrated dynamic in the gender wars is that not all conversational tactics are open to everybody. In particular, tactics men constantly use on each other, and laugh off, are seen as crushingly emasculating and humiliating when used by women on men.
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women facepalm six times as hard when a woman says something dumb than when a man does but I think it’s not just percentages
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There’s a law of large numbers here. When you’re part of a small sample, you’re far more on guard with yourself and others in the small sample, since the marginal reputation all damage to all from the actions of one are high. Large sample = statistical security.
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