Massively underrated advantage of being a woman: you can hug people unconditionally—even the very first time you meet them!—without having to worry that it comes off as odd or creepy 🤗
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Umm no. Even if there’s no creepiness/grope factor, there’s definitely a hidden negative cost you incur. More people than you probably realize just don’t like it, both men and women. I’m one of them. Seinfeld had an episode about it and also this: m.youtube.com/watch?v=iX3_L8
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To clarify: I don't just hug everyone indiscriminately. I go for it if they give cues that they'd be fine/happy with it
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(You might recall I didn't go in for a hug when we met the other day 😉)
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Maybe you’ve never had a Devon hug tho. Also as you’ve recently said😉, it’s better for her to just not like people who don’t like hugs and discover that ASAP 🤗



