What’s the difference between that and total codependence? What’s the reading of couples where partners die within days of each other (not suicide, just one dying = other gives up)
Conversation
Replying to
I’m not sure I believe in codependence but I hear the word a lot
3
2
I'd love to hear more about your not believing in co-dependence
1
2
for one thing it comes out of the very fake & suspect AA movement
1
1
6
vague but it seems like “depression + busybody response to lack of trust/safety” which isn’t about monogamy
2
4
I love this. I'm once-married dating another divorcee and we're being so pragmatic about our relationship that we have shared google docs devoted to it
1
2
I wrote this early in my marriage and still endorse it theviewfromhell.blogspot.com/2012/08/what-m
2
2
Jeez am I glad you outgrew that style of writing
1
2
Replying to
Nobody over 30 should use EEA, game theory as general analysis crutches. Unless they’re actually doing technical game theory or field ethology.


