Good point made, although, someone in many cases won't know what they feelin, instances where "hey this person is cute, let me talk to them" without the want to date/do them(?) idk my words r a mess, just that you can't definitively say i only want a friendship/etc early on?? https://twitter.com/sethjoesph/status/965417606894190597 …
also want to add onto the point that the whole "you can't remain friends or it won't work out if he/she/they say "let's just be friends" statement is bullshit. I have two people i confessed to at different points in time, one I confessed to about 3-4 years ago, she said no but -
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- at this moment, she's my bestfriend. everything. And i've told her on multiple occasions that I genuinely appreciate the fact that she said no because without her as a friend and a pillar of support in my life, honestly i wouldn't even be alive rn (she helped me thru suicide) -
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- an amazing individual, I can 100% guarantee you that based on certain factors and lifestyle, that we wouldn't have been a thing for long, as it was probably an infatuation. Sometimes, having that person as a friend, rather than a partner, is much better. i appreciate u star!!
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Next, is a very recent incident, never really thought about much, just sent her a picture of Sparky, as i do on random occasions to friends, heard she leagues as well so we just started talking, over time, i kinda did develop feelings, and yes, i did confess, (new years, cheesy)-
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-And she did say no, but, apart from Star that i mentioned above, earlier in this thread, she's basically a "secondary best friend" not to degrade her value or anything. But yeah, she's helped me through a fuckton and i believe i have too(?) time passed, i kinda realized that -
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The rejection was a GOOD thing, i don't think things would have worked out too well immediately as well, and yes, if u see this, know that i appreciate u so fucking much and you're worth so much more, it's just that u don't see ur own self worth and you're stupid for that -
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So yeah, to sum it up, sure it can be rare, but i don't think you should immediately stop talking to that person if they say that, work it out and see if your friendship can stand strong.
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