Wanted to revisit this question. If it were to reach a level you would consider harassment, and it were calling them virgin, incel etc. Would the virgin shaming aspect put that in the category of sexual harassment.
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I'm looking for a more over all principle to apply. On one hand I think sexual harassment is typically about harassing someone to have sex. But I can also see harassing someone about "inadequacy" as sexual harassment. To me harassing isn't one off comments or picking on someone
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It's more about, a pernicious on going behavior. Where as a women might not be bugged as much by virgin shaming but more so by advancements. The reverse would be true for a guy I think.
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i dont think it matters your gender. that would effect if it is or is not. for me just is it persistent behavior...context.
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No, the gender wouldn't affect whether or not it is shaming. But the digs you would use on a man and a women would be different I think, because they are not similarly situated in a lot of ways. Feel free to disagree here, but I think dating is much harsher on men.
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i disagree young girls are often pressured to loose their V cards(usually by friends)...at the same time if they sleep around too much its slutty. i do disagree... not harsher but different problems. men face just different problems then women face.
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I think when it comes to dating, the entire thing. The expectations that are put on men are much higher. Make the moves, take all the risks of rejection, pay for dinner. Plus, and my girlfriend will attest to this part. It's much easier to get a data as a girl.
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https://youtu.be/Ip7kP_dd6LU For instance. Take Norah Vincent's experiences of how she was treated when she was a man. The initial reaction she got from those women. When one found out she was a women she apologized for her behavior.
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