Can we please eliminate the phrase, "Stop crying. Be a man"? The old fashioned stereotype doesnt work. Let's cherish the vulnerabilities of men. Their lives depend on it. 121 Americans die by suicide each day, according to the Centers for Disease Control — and 93 of them are men.
INCEL, is not a good thing. Crying, being vulnerable, wearing dresses doesn't seem to make anyone happy for more than an instant. The old stereotype is old for a reason.... it works better than any other option out there. If your a man be a man, everything else is taken.