The red pill approach that tells us to use game & continue to use game into marriage seems like a recipe for misery to me. I don’t want to spend 30 yrs using techniques to put a woman under control. Yrs of acting against your nature; it would be like being at work but at home.
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Replying to @tomxhart
Ask not for a lighter load, but for broader shoulders. As long as you think running game is a discrete task, or an act, yes, it will seem like futility. What you're doing is making attractive behaviour your natural way of being. thats why it's called 'hard mode'
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And it's not for control, you cannot control women, society is geared to prevent that even if you could Instead, it's to provide abundance. She can act a damned fool, and you can easily replace her with someone more valuable. It's about commanding value from the world, nt control
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Every skill is awkward, disingenuous, and ineffective. this is why practice exists.
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1. It’s absolutely about control, because it’s about manipulating another person—as far as possible—to do what you want. As with any manipulation, whether propaganda or law, control can never be complete w/ another human.
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2. I agree it’s a skill that can be improved, but what I’m sceptical about is that a personality change can occur. This seems to fly in the face of my own observations & what I’ve read of psychology. It means you’ll often have a false front on, effectively working at home.
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You're different now than you were as a child. Adults change after trauma (your psych research said that too) Why do you think guys only redpill after a girl crushes them? Unless the guy is self sabotaging, it will change him. Rp concepts are great because it gives beneficial
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Direction to the change. Otherwise, a cheating whore wife could drive a man to suicide, to substance abuse, or other self destructive habits. Instead, it gives a safety net. Some Evo psych understanding of what happened and why, along with positive directions for masculinity
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Yes, I agree. I think this is very valuable for people in this situation and I’d have certainly benefitted from it 7 or so years ago. It’s good to have people putting this perspective out there.
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