I suspect some men are alpha and some are not. I’ve seen it suggested that the state can make it look otherwise, but pretending to be something you not is sure to be a disaster.
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Round these parts we have a saying that hardly anyone uses anymore, which I think is a shame. "a good deal is one where both parties feel like the other one got one over on them", loosely translated. That's pretty much how I think healthy relationships work
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Don't kid yourself that women don't do something equivalent in relationships. Best we all can hope for is finding a stable pattern that works, and an abstract mutual meta acknowlement of the absurdity of our station
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1. I don’t think women abstract, especially into the future, as well as men. They are canny and looking for a good bargain, but they don’t have “game” as a skill, bc being women they have been working on seduction & social relations from birth. Seduction comes naturally.
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2. My approach is to drop all appearances and say exactly what I think and feel, whatever works on that “natural” basis works. It does make me an arsehole quite often which is a form of “game”, but I find the horsetrading approach to relationships miserable.
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3. Also, I think nature has an intention for people and that attempts to be rational or horsetrade frustrate this. Essentially, I advocate “just being yourself”—except I mean really, really do that: say things you actually think or feel, even if it seems embarrassing or stupid.
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That's why I said "something equivalent". My point being that just like women can't understand "game", we can't understand whatever the female equivalent is. At least not fully. I dont think the issue of relationships is at all "solved" intellectually, only practically.
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1. I think we can, because we can be more objective than women. We make systems and understand things beyond ourselves. We can’t know the subjective experience of a woman, but we can understand her systems—as mentioned in the other post, these are predictable.
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2. But, of course, I believe in a spiritual or supernatural aspect beyond mere material manipulation. Nature has her devices and desires,too. I think conciousness interferes. There are people I know who should have mated, but “reason” & modernity interfered.
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Ask not for a lighter load, but for broader shoulders. As long as you think running game is a discrete task, or an act, yes, it will seem like futility. What you're doing is making attractive behaviour your natural way of being. thats why it's called 'hard mode'
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And it's not for control, you cannot control women, society is geared to prevent that even if you could Instead, it's to provide abundance. She can act a damned fool, and you can easily replace her with someone more valuable. It's about commanding value from the world, nt control
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Every skill is awkward, disingenuous, and ineffective. this is why practice exists.
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1. It’s absolutely about control, because it’s about manipulating another person—as far as possible—to do what you want. As with any manipulation, whether propaganda or law, control can never be complete w/ another human.
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2. I agree it’s a skill that can be improved, but what I’m sceptical about is that a personality change can occur. This seems to fly in the face of my own observations & what I’ve read of psychology. It means you’ll often have a false front on, effectively working at home.
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You're different now than you were as a child. Adults change after trauma (your psych research said that too) Why do you think guys only redpill after a girl crushes them? Unless the guy is self sabotaging, it will change him. Rp concepts are great because it gives beneficial
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1. It is true you change from childhood to adult, but then, as I understand it, personality becomes stable. Personalities change after physical traumas, but I’m less certain about psych traumas. RP is just how reality is, most people know but suppress for ideological reasons.
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2. After a break up, people become more willing to be politically incorrect & say what they really think. Although, of course, some people are so heavily ideologised that they barely conceive of an RP perspective—they just have an inkling not expressed in words.
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