A strange aspect of women, even within a family, is that they sabotage men. They do not help men develop, only men can help men. I presume this is some kind of ongoing fitness test, but the results are often fatal for boys in single parent families (i.e. those with single mums).
True. However, people see what they want to see. Most people know their partner is having an affair, but they shield it from themselves. In the same way, you can say “that’s just a character”. Also, in modernity there is immense pressure to think, “It was different in the past.”