It seems to me that the problems are Shame. Being very slightly complicit and therefore feeling entirely to blame. (Example, I flirted back when flirted with. Doesn't make me a harasser). Communication. Not knowing what to say to anyone. Keeping secrets. Protecting the perp
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Popularity He's well known, so I must be imagining it. Are you self gas-lighting? No. He's doing it. He's leveraging it Sexism. She's saying it for drama/attention/victim culture. She's probably not. She's probably kept it under wraps for years.
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So let's solve it! Let's talk more. Let's stop blaming women for "flirting gone wrong" Let's ask our friends why they feel bad, and let's give a shit. Let's be unafraid to call out minor stuff and thereby preventing major.
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Ladies, find three new friends in the community and pact with them to tell them stuff. Even bad stuff.
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Gentlemen, find a lady and confirm friendship and that you will listen and help.
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I'm aware I've left out male victims. Guys who are gaslit, harassed, who have nasty things happen, tell that lady friend you just made.
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I particularly need help. I'm autistic which means I easily misunderstand and can be misunderstood. I'm guilable, easily misled, niave, believe the best in all. I miss things. A lot.
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Hey hey, you ok? Here if you need an ear. DM or whatevs. Appreciate what you do for the WoW community.
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Hey, I'm lucky enough to have good, kind friends. Thank you for reaching out
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Not ugly though. :( *Hugs*
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