Like as an example Hollywood wise there’s dozens of movies where the single girl always gets the guy. It’s a celebration of her success. How many movies can you think about that celebrate the struggle of the single guy? Not a good looking one either.
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It’s all just shit I don’t get in general. A lot of those sad people out there feel sad because they wonder about things they think they’ll never have. Like a dream that’s nearly in your finger tips, but never accessible. Very surreal.
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Especially when most people never feel like they’re the hero of their own story. They feel like they’re a side character waiting for their own chance. Never get told that they’re heroic or great at being the person they are. That no matter what happens they are great.
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But some people are never told that. They never understand that someone loves them or cares for them and existence feels bleak. That no matter how many people are in the world they are still completely alone. Which is honestly heartbreaking as a idea to hear.
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Especially when some people have so much to share with the world, but never feel like it’s their time for it. Seen that a lot with those foreveralone types where they don’t feel like they have anyone to share things with. Always the most saddening thing when someone just stops.
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Stops living a life they could dream for. Stops caring about their own physical existence. Stops caring about their emotional heart. Stops caring in general because they never feel like anything will ever be okay. Just wish I could hug those people and tell them otherwise.
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Yet that never really heals the wound I’ve noticed. Weird as an idea, but it’s the most comforting thing I think that people can do when they hear such profound sadness.
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Hope anyone reading this too understands that no matter what you are still you. You’ve done great this far past everything and nothing can stop you from happiness. It takes time for all things, but never know what’s around the corner. Life is very absurd like that.
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I did feel sad when I was younger but now just feel numb and have come to an acceptance of the situation I find myself in. Parents divorce, homelessness, independently living for a few decades, being bullied, introverted & virtually no interest from women has formed how I am.
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Replying to @tgheretford @DatingSims
It forms the basis of the self-deprecating humour that I use and the personality traits I have now - being independent and having ire against others who don't help themselves. I do think we are teaching boys bad advice on dating, relationships and what women want in a man.
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The 'forever alone'/incel/Nice Guy types are given advice that contradicts known evolutionary psychology and evolutionary biology scientific findings on general straight female desirability in a mate and it screws them up, leaves them resentful, bitter or depressed.
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