You can handle it and like others have said you will grow, learn and adapt to parenting. You can also decide it’s not for you. Only you and Lauren will know what’s the best choice for you. Being a dad is awesome and challenging.
I choose not to have kids because I always knew that it wasn't the path for me. It's okay to listen to that internal voice, it's there for a reason. It's not being selfish. You can't fail with children, being a great parent is a calling that not all people are meant for.
