#SurvivedAndPunishedVarmennettu tili

Tammy: Signed up for lifer groups and people often asked her why she bothered. She replied that you never know, things can change. Started going to classes, became a counselor, and attended DV courses. She was was one of 10 picked for commutation.

Brandy: While in prison, in the first year she thought she’d never be beaten again. But also if she was never beaten, she’d never be loved again. The abuse taught her to equate being beaten with being love. DV programs finally came to prison and she finally opened up.

Q: Can you share something about those still incarcerated and what we can do to amplify their voices? Ny: Survivors feel a lot of guilt and shame. Survivors inside need to know they’re loved and cared for, that they’re more than the label put on them.

Brandy: LWOP is generally their first crime. Their crime doesn’t define who they are. Many inside, while they want to get out, they believe they don’t deserve to get out. But they do.

Barbara: Folks on LWOP are often making this happen in prison, despite not qualifying for programs that those who are non-LWOP. We need to support them.

Tammy: LWOPs are often pushed to the side. Do a petition for some of these folks on LWOP. Write to the Governor for them. Stand together to help them out.

Kelly: Was fortunate to have the support of orgs like S&P who were able to get her story out & she received hundreds of support letters. Knows how powerful it is to receive a letter from someone saying they believe her about the abuse she suffered. Wishes that for all survivors.

Gabby: We’re not defined by being survivors of domestic violence. People outside advocating on our behalf are the motor that keep this moving. We need more people like that.