as a short, shy, old “dude” this happens to me too. just sayin
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you've asked a question and had the man you were addressing respond to someone else, apparently refusing to look at you?
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Absolutely. It's an Aspergers thing.
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I remain convinced that I am describing a different phenomenon. But, this is the bird website. It's gonna prove tricky to compare experience
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Perhaps we oughtn’t do that here. I hope you will hear me say that there are many significant dimensions of diversity & most aren’t visible
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However I am definitely - alone at conferences (too old, not famous, not cool) - considered suspect as a white guy - token gay, token OG
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Did I mention meeting at Wilson-Sonsini where I said “my partner is parking the car” and the assoc. asked “What do you mean by ‘partner’?"
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Nothing out here is easy. And the tech dude vs. women thing is totally validated. Just saying it’s bigger than that.
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Word.
Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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It’s been a while since I worked in tech but I can’t remember this ever happening to me. Most dudes I talked to were happy to talk to me. 1/
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Lack of eye contact not uncommon tho. But I’ve had that w/ both women & men in tech. Suspect
@deadprogrammer is right about Aspergers. /end
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