Nobody has any “values.” This is a complete myth; one that does more than anything to drive the destructive culture war. (Anyone know of a good write-up of this? If not, I guess I ought to do it; the confusion seems near-universal.)
Knowing that people use values to signal or rationalise, rather than actually guide behaviour, is useful. It means we can predict that a person who "values honesty" will be no more or less honest than anyone else.
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Inferred values may be more useful than stated values. People to have patterns in behavior, and if you use a values theory to capture this, then values are real.
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A bit similar, when someone has harmed us, our judgment of their intention is important, but we don't take their claimed lack of intention very seriously. If it was intentional, we predict they are more likely to hurt us again.
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Yeah, except you don't actually know this. It could be that many people who say they "value honesty" actually try to be honest when others wouldn't. You'd have to actually check, wouldn't you.
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Certainly! My tweet related to abandoning the temptation to automatically believing them without checking, which a stated value invites you to do.
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