It’s very hard to stop doing something. You mostly can’t just stop. You need some other, unrelated method to accidentally disintegrate the thing, evaporate, or blow it up. The quest then, is to find the methods. They are going to be oblique to the thing you're trying to work on.
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Replying to @m_ashcroft
curious about this comment, since we have talked? Feels like you're promoing yourself
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Replying to @ssica3003
It was more meant as a joke and mild disagreement with the premise
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Replying to @m_ashcroft
So it's not "very hard" to stop doing something, it's easier than that, generally? It's not "mostly you can't just stop", it's more like "actually you CAN just stop", with ordinary every day Will and no Special Methods?
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Replying to @ssica3003
It's "it is possible to just stop, though it is something you need to know how to do, and framing it as something that is very hard to do makes it harder to do"
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Replying to @m_ashcroft
I find framing it as easy to do makes people reject you from that moment because it hurts their feelings and denies their current experience
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Replying to @ssica3003
I'm also not framing it as easy to do, particularly when people have tried lots of things and it's causing suffering. But something being trivial and something being not "very hard" are different things
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Horses for courses I guess
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