MetaJess

All else being equal, if you “wanted” to do something but then didn’t do it, it means you didn’t actually want to do it. Maybe you thought you should, you recognised the value etc. But that is very different to actually wanting something. You have no problem doing what you want.

The thing about extremely vague statements that can be easily used support ableist bigotry is that they're bad because they are extremely vague and can be used to support ableist bigotry. You wanted to make some grand point and instead you said something bad and useless.