MetaJess

Having an orgy sounds safer than going out and dating monogamously and getting coughed on by some random stranger walking past you are the boxpark or wherever it is that single people go

i mean it really isn't about the sex but it's about having a gathering of however much people indoors which is, to put it mildly, is not recommended right now as someone who's taking the quarantine stuff extremely seriously this would frustrate me as well

Two households (more in different parts of uk) may stay overnight in each other’s homes

Won’t talk more publicly about exactly how we bent that rule but it wasn’t much. Everyone was informed beforehand to make their own choices, everyone visiting us afterwards have been informed too. It’s cool that people don’t want to come over, it’s the “you’re evil” that grates.

you're not evil or anything, but we all live in a society, so unless everyone self-isolated for 2 weeks afterwards there was a likelyhood that someone could have gotten it and passed it over to whoever

Well, quite. No one is really asking if we self isolated after. As it happens, we live a fairly isolated life, don’t go out much, masks and hand washing if we do. However I think people need to examine whether spreading is a crime / amoral as well.

a crime, may be a step to far, but i feel very strongly that it's morally bad

Fair enough, I can respect that. I don’t think the same.