Polyamory 101: learn to say no. In polyamory this is setting and maintaining your boundaries. It’s also Kegan stage 4 101, having a separate self which is much less subject to the feelings of those around you.https://twitter.com/sonyasupposedly/status/1233530523202383872 …
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I saw this tweet and thought, "huh, never heard of that Kegan thing, sounds interesting." Then an hour later I'm reading this article and it talks about Kegan level 4 as 'the self-authored mind.' So obviously now I'm buying the book.
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"It’s only in and after this stage that people can start dealing with complex problems. This is where we see powerful changemakers emerge."
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If you're reading the Cook-greueter essay I'd say you don't need the book :)
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Oh, forgot to link the article. https://www.thnk.org/blog/the-forgotten-aspect-of-systems-leadership/ … Is this the Cook-Greuter essay you mentioned? https://www.cook-greuter.com/Cook-Greuter%209%20levels%20paper%20new%201.1'14%2097p%5B1%5D.pdf …
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Yes that's the essay. Oh that article mentions In Over Our Heads, haven't read that one, if you get it I'll borrow it from you :)
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