MetaJess

This... is just not true. I really hate the “men so this, women do that” utter shite. In my community there are a small number of women and a small number of men who want tons of casual sex and believe me they find each other. Most other people fall on a spectrum and ...

... if you take life long financial and emotional dependency out of the equation (ie monogamy) all genders, regardless of their sex drive, are quite happy to fuck for fun. The frequency more often comes down to personal taste/trauma. And don’t even get me started on sexuality.

There a tons of asexual and low sex drive poly people. But even so, the existence of all these groups and variations show that it’s not simply a case of man horny woman not horny we are doomed.

Ok we just like height, the middle of the distribution is slightly shifted one way for men than women, and there are more men on the right tail and more women on the left tail, but almost everyone is actually just mixed in the middle. But social factors are SO important for sex