for me it’s been quite subtle to tell the difference between “i don’t want to hurt you” and “i don’t want to feel responsible for hurting you because i’d feel like a bad person.” latter can be overcome and feels like an important edge for me personally
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Replying to @context_ing @ben_mathes and
yeah agh i’m getting better but i still hate being disliked so much
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Replying to @QiaochuYuan @context_ing and
I find it helps when you realize that being ok with the possibility of being disliked... makes the right people like you more
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Replying to @visakanv @QiaochuYuan and
visa is decluttering old drafts Retweeted ye
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Replying to @visakanv @QiaochuYuan and
Conceptually I get that. Emotionally, basically not.
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Replying to @ben_mathes @QiaochuYuan and
Ha yeah embracing haters is very unnatural human behaviour
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Replying to @visakanv @ben_mathes and
I encourage folk to try it if they can. Risking being disliked and actually seeing and feeling people *like you more* sets up a feedback loop eventually
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Replying to @context_ing @ssica3003 and
Your advice is bad and I don’t care if you dislike me.
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That’s the spirit!
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