MetaJess

I usually save sex life tweets for my alt but I am looking for advice so here goes- I’ve been dating both girls & guys for the first time as a baby bi & I feel such a stark contrast b/w the scriptless interactions I’m fumbling through with girls & the easy flow I have with guys

fwiw you are not alone, I had the exact same feeling when I was dating girls before I met my fiance! it's like the patterns you're used to aren't there

it’s very weird like, the last time I was one of two people who were mutually down to fool around but could not find any socially acceptable way to communicate it to each other was like junior high.

This is just what it’s like for anyone to sexually pursue women (says bi guy who mostly dates bi women). You just have to enjoy the grating awkward uncertainty and lean in. Scripts: withhold the complements they’ve obviously hear and give the ones they probably don’t.