Finding it relaxing to ignore my culture’s idea of the good life - the “experiences” paradigm. That a life should have as many “experiences” as possible. Preferably capitalism-compatible “good” experiences of course. To mentally release from that drive is a relief.
1. Find the perfect cherry blossom (Last Samurai movie) 2. Enjoy simple pleasures with equanimity (Stoics) 3. Live without desire, which is harmful (Buddhish) Are the last two what you mean by legacy? If I made one up it would be along librarian monk sort of lines.