John Sonmez

I work with a number of female programmers, and they are all strong and handle the flow of banter that I spew. Your assumption that women feel the same about issues in tech is in fact a sexist view. Many, like us 'brogrammers', reject your identity politics view of life

Your assumption that all such women accept you is amusing. I love how people such as you cry "victim" at the drop of a hat. I reject your POV. And I would never want to work with you on a project, nor would I ever recommend you to anyone I know.

(As for my way of life, I'm happily working from Maui, and am engaged on a number of projects across the world that matter. I'm doing quite well with my life, thank you.)

I was just there to run the Maui marathon. Small world.

Had I known that, I would have had a beer with you at the beach. Seriously.

I believe. Next time perhaps. If you ever are in San Diego, I'll buy you one. Online things are much different than real life. I would bet we have more similarities in viewpoints than differences.