The number of fucking A+ women in my life who have dated guys who message them constantly/say emotional things about how they feel about her/see them all the time who then go “oh I’m emotionally stunted” or “actually my mental health means I can’t be exclusive”..........Ban men
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I put this in a reply but now I’m putting it on main: I’m honestly ready for the fucking long read about men learning the basics of emotional language and using it as a weapon to come off as “the good guy” while fucking over women they’ve intentionally coaxed vulnerability out of
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Replying to @sarahmanavis
I read an article years ago about “soft boys” which are literally this description. I think this is it or at least along the same lineshttps://humanparts.medium.com/have-you-encountered-the-softboy-7e95e2c7f3e7 …
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Replying to @lizrob92
Yes! I think it’s like a vein of softboy tbh, but you’re definitely right: they’re part of the same fucking bullshit trend
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Replying to @sarahmanavis
Also, hate to the be *that* person. But I do think us women just put up with 100 horrendous ones till we find that one good egg. The horror stories I have from the last few years dating are wiped away by how great my boyfriend is.
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Yeah totally although the thing that fucks me off is that these guys are almost 100% seemingly great until the very end? And then it’s like “oh you’ve misread me being very loving and intense”
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