Cognitive functions. The biggest difference between Te/Ti/Fe/Fi is not the T/F head-heart distinction, but actually the E/I. An "I", whether F or T, will stand up for their beliefs, but an "E" will sacrifice them. It's then just whether those beliefs prioritize feelings or logic.
To give an even more concrete example... I fell out with a friend last year. My immediate impulse was to roll over, to invite criticism, to do whatever it took to repair the relationship, even if it meant questioning my own reality and perception of events. I gaslit myself.
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As time passed, I used the reassurance from better friends to rely more on my less prominent Fi side. I developed the bravery, confidence and self-respect to confront that friend and stand up for myself. To give ground where it was earned, to be humble where I had messed up...
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But to stand by the times when I was right, or just, or where I had been unjustly maligned. Fi was not my default, but I'm capable of it, and I am healthier for strengthening it. Likewise, sometimes Fe doms grow by learning when to give way to others and take one for the team.
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