Narrative Designer at @SumoDigitalLtd Notts 
MCV 30 Under 30 2021 She/her. This is a personal account and views expressed are mine alone.
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Many including myself weren't firm enough about this because, on paper, he was very nice. I didn't want to hurt his feelings or act detrimentally to his mental health. Blocking felt unearned, but now I know it's not about that. It's about protecting your space.
I changed my mind about that this morning when I saw just how many people had the same experience. Others have confronted him *many* times and his behaviour has remained the same, just directed at different people.
So that's it. If someones makes you feel uncomfortable, just block them. Don't stick around for the sake of their feelings. It's okay to feel uncomfortable even if you can't quite pin the reason, and it's okay to assert your boundaries. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise.
This is ultimately what did it for me. I thought I was helping him learn to fix his actions and get better. I thought he was improving and working on himself. Discovering now that he was simply moving on to others really hurts me.
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