MCV 30 Under 30 2021 
How do other people deal with the "you should just give up now so you never have to see how badly you fail" thoughts
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I try to remember that most people don’t know what they’re doing and have failed before and will fail again. I think about mediocre men doing work beyond their skillset, like even leading entire countries. So I do the work when I can and try not to feel precious about the outcome
Tbf that is VERY reassuring. It's hard not to feel capable next to some leaders.
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A big part is how you talk to yourself, so treating yourself like a good friend would and giving yourself a break if you need. Don’t worry about keeping up with imaginary benchmarks of other people’s performative productivity. Especially right now.
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Thank you. Yeah, I tend to be extremely harsh on myself in my head, since there's no-one else in there to say otherwise. I'm trying to do a CTRL+F Find And Replace on every instance of "Gahh I hate myself" and "I can't do this" and it is a BIG undertaking trying to catch them all
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