What’s better in the face of unconstructive criticism: the self-belief to ignore it and follow your vision or the humility to say you’re probably wrong and you just don’t understand why yet?
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This is very much a hypothetical. After Frozen II I’m in this blissful state of ‘believe in yourself, trust your gut’. But that got me wondering if that was too fairytale. How do I know that my gut can be trusted? Is that arrogant? I want to trust in trusting.
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The two hypotheticals I considered were: - Someone criticises something bit gives no direction for where or how to improve, and you feel proud of it - Someone offers feedback, and you’ve weighed it up but decided you don’t agree Should you trust or doubt yourself?
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W odpowiedzi do @sarahlongthorne
Analyse the reasons and goals behind your choices. If you had purpose behind them, and your feedback isn't telling you that you missed those goals, trust your self. Always take feedback on board, but don't doubt your choices based on nothing.
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The problem with me is that, left unchecked, I will take on all feedback (quietly or otherwise) and in the past this has sometimes left my work feeling quite sterile. I don’t know where to draw the line.
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W odpowiedzi do @sarahlongthorne @GraemeAllarton
There’s also the fact that I then take it further to doubting my ability in total, and my perception of reality itself, which has a habit of paralysing me. I spiral into quite an unproductive place.
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There’s no problem if I can see where they’re coming from, which is usually the case. But just sometimes I feel so strongly about something and feel that they don’t understand what I’m trying to do, that I’m seeing something they can’t, and then I doubt EVERYTHING
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