SJ Longthorne

I feel this.

All I ever wear are jeans, trainers, old T-shirt’s with hair dye stains and my Sumo hoody. I have some nice heeled boots that I like and one nice short skirt. I feel like most clothes don’t hang nicely on me. I don’t have a style; none of my clothes match.

Maybe you'd benefit from outside perspective when looking at/trying on clothes. I've spent a long time kinda being afraid of clothes? In a way. There's definitely kinda of clothes that I think that I like the look of but then I think they won't look good so I just also do jeans.

I feel like I want that outside perspective but also I don’t trust people. I feel like what I’m trying to buy is other people’s body types rather than the clothes themselves and I’m always disappointed.

And jeez changing room lighting it depressing.

I legit get anxious/intimidated by women's clothing stores. I feel like I shouldn't be in them, y'know? Like I'm not attractive enough to be in there. Ugh. Are there clothes you like? I think you should buy the clothes you like.

Same. I try to spend as little time in them as possible and if I can avoid the changing rooms, I do. Shopping is depressing. Same here, I feel like it’s for someone else. All the stuff I like either doesn’t suit me or feels like it’s part of this whole a e s t h e t I c

And you you can’t pull it off unless your whole wardrobe is part of it. I’d LOVE to have an aesthetic but I don’t know where to start and it looks expensive