Some day, I would like to write a list of things not to say to someone who has had a miscarriage. And things to say/do instead.
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En réponse à @lkoturner
My first instinct is to say that there are much worse things that can happen to a person. But of course I would never say such an
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
...insensitive thing
. I might be tempted to say, well, it's much worse to lose a child after birth. Or what about people who have no2 réponses 0 Retweet 0 j'aime -
En réponse à @my_little_words
Please stop. This is incredibly unkind and personally hurtful to me. You are being cruel.
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En réponse à @lkoturner
I just think that you're wanting people to be sensitive to you, so you in turn should be sensitive to others who have had to endure much
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
...worse than a miscarriage. I'm sure you're mature enough to process what I'm saying, no?
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
An apt, wise, and humble response from you would be to say something like, believe me, I know people go thru much worse, but I have a right
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
...to my own pain. That way, you'd be caring for yourself and others at the same time! This is just coming from someone who observes
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
...women whining about miscarriages all the time in a myopic way, as if their lot is THE WORST ON THE PLANET.
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En réponse à @my_little_words @lkoturner
Let's just say that I'm not interested in hearing you go on and on about your miscarriage. If that makes me a bad person, then so be it.
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Wow yes yep you're a bad person
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