I already discussed it privately with a man, and I thought it was illuminating, but I want to hear from others. Why does it stand out?
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don't be shy now, this is a rare opportunity in which i have actually invited you to @ me
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thread is good. I find it strange when men fixate on the leather jacket thing, but there *is* one thing about it that bugs me.
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There's just no fucking way the men at Uber didn't notice the leather jacket thing.
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And they didn't say anything?

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My 8th-grade teacher gave a bag of M&Ms to everyone but me. Made a production of it. Being deliberately excluded is humiliating.
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Sounds stupid, but I still remember that feeling decades later.
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it stands out to me because I don't know any guys that wanted a leather jacket since 1989 (plus it'd need an 8-ball on the back)
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I'm not trying to be funny, I honestly haven't seen a nice looking men's leather jacket since the late 80s.
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The burn unit should arrive in a few minutes, Matt. Try to stay calm.
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the leather jacket was just such blatant disregard for all the women on the team which I couldn't believe a place would do. 1/*
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It wasn't something someone did in private and others tried to cover up. It was done in the open knowing ppl wouldn't care. 2/*
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and on Slack today as well as your replies I see, "Whatever, life isn't fair" and can't understand the callousness. 3/3
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I guess, I know there's creeps and there's those who look away. But the jackets is such a low bar for how to not be an asshole.
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Theory: it is the sort of transparent baiting that would have prompted a (many would consider justified) fistfight in highschool
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There's a type that goads w/ barest pretense to get you to swing at them so you get in trouble. That part sounds like that type.
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It sticks with many because there's no good answer. If you swing, you're in trouble. If you don't swing, then you're a target
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Most have been there, so for them it might drive home the point. Even the naive guy response of 'head down and work' won't work.
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