Any Korean Am/Korean friends in the know about etiquette re: banmal/jondaemal? @arissaoh @sarahjeong
@graceishuman @arissaoh I think it's chill for you to use banmal if they said to, though it's odd to me that the younger person initiated!
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@sarahjeong@arissaoh I did say she should speak comfortably as well, but in English, so y'know. May not have been clear. -
@graceishuman@sarahjeong my understanding was that it's the older person who decides lowering/not lowering so I'm confused. -
@arissaoh@sarahjeong well@hardfemmemagic was saying it was probably saving face bc she knows I can't speak proficiently. Makes sense to me -
@arissaoh@sarahjeong@hardfemmemagic I can see how it might seem less a breach of custom when the other person is a foreigner :p -
@arissaoh@sarahjeong@hardfemmemagic after all it's not like I would know it was out of the ordinary, lol. -
@arissaoh@sarahjeong@hardfemmemagic also realizing I mistakenly did the same when I told another, much older language partner banmal is OK -
@arissaoh@sarahjeong@hardfemmemagic#TheMoreYouKnow she's old enough to be my mom tho and I felt so weird being addressed in jondae >_<
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@graceishuman@arissaoh (but I'm garbage at being korean) -
@sarahjeong@arissaoh I'm garbage at being Yoruba so I feel you
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