sarah jeong

@jsatk @snipeyhead (And if that feels burdensome, thank the countless men on the web who've ruined the simpler phrasing by being dicks!)

@anildash @jsatk In my experience, the kitchen is just too hot now. Men don’t bother asking.

@snipeyhead @anildash correct. I barely discuss hot topics on here because it ends up in a yelling match where I’m made to feel small.

@jsatk @snipeyhead I feel I've been able to find a balance where I can participate in the conversation without such fears. It is possible.

@anildash @jsatk @snipeyhead Me too. Unless race comes up, then I run for the hills ;-) Intersectionaly terrified of saying the wrong thing

@stoverben @anildash @jsatk @snipeyhead Agreed. This is probably one of the few cases where "grow thicker skin" is not brush-off, but fair

@aantonop @stoverben @anildash @jsatk people are actually afraid for their jobs though. It’s not about feelings being hurt.