Aside from hideous people who really do have "a playbook," i.e. "the game, etc." it seems a lot of this is the evolutionary biology (or culture) of many women responding to masculine bravado by being attracted to it.
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hmmm rethink this tweet
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unpopular opinion: I detest that dude's behavior as much as you do, and wish that people didn't end up in relationships with men who abuse people and neglect consent. And also have repeatedly witnessed abusive behavior by men as a "successful" mating strategy.
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Women need a playbook too - the second someone says you can't see your friends at night, have a drink (when you want one), or speak in public places (???), end the relationship. Trust your instincts.
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Bama Dude has a point through. This should not be something a girl has to figure out on her own as her confidence is going down and she is unsure which excuse is legit and whether she is crazy. Optimally, this scenario and tactic should be discussed as kid grows.
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Like you said, there *are* patterns in abuse. Figuring out that your confidence is going down because of what partner does is easier if you was taught how it looks like before. It is harder if all you ever heard was love means you are all the time there for partner and similar bs
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I guess in a sense that what rape culture is?
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i've just been a young woman in relationships with fam, just wondering if i have any internet friends they've known since grade school or none at all
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it made me so so sad to read it too - sending
@skydart, you and others so much love and support through crazy things like this that shouldn't even be happening
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the playbook is called The Y Chromosome
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This was a hard read
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Man :( it reminds me a lot though thankfully not to the same degree (afaik) as my sister's ex husband, I dunno if I should send this to her or if it would be triggering
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