@0xDEBA5E12 @okayultra @sarahdoingthing I'm broadly sympathetic to "safe spaces" on "good fences make good neighbors" grounds
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@sarahdoingthing yup, a norm of stopping immediately when you seem to be causing pain and don't know why is cool & good -
@sarahdoingthing then ofc some people are gonna see the surface behaviors and try to game the system - 17 more replies
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@sarahdoingthing tangentially but relevantly: seems there's similar system-gaming in "this traditional practice is no longer considered ok" -
@sarahdoingthing parenting in particular. plenty of real examples of "we used to call this ok but now realize it's abusive and oppose it" - 1 more reply
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@sarahdoingthing@St_Rev curious how stopping it when you don't understand why it's giving offense *pending investigation* plays out w/this -
@sarahdoingthing@St_Rev the eventual outcome may be "oh! now understand why that upset them and agree I ought not to do that anymore" - 2 more replies
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