The nature of peopling http://www.meltingasphalt.com/personhood-a-game-for-two-or-more-players/ … by @KevinSimler - shades of Baumeister http://users.wfu.edu/masicaej/BaumeisterMasicampo2010PsychRev.pdf … & Rochat https://carcinisation.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/rochat-others-in-mind-1.pdf …
@qwoned constrained is other people actively making you that way, & you wouldn't get that way alone - but ofc we're adapted (biased) for it